How to be a good Mom? How to be a good Dad? Being Good Parents! Best Practices for Raising Your Child

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While Mommy was waiting at the X-Ray Center, she looked at a poster. I started reading. Sounds like this is something to do with how to take good care in raising us children.

This is what I read before they took me in for the Ultrasound Today:


If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.

If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.

If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.

If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty.

If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.

if a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence.

If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate.

If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.

If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith.

If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.

If a child lives with acceptance, and friendship he learns to find love in the world.


I can almost guarantee I would have the best mum and dad. Now I am thinking I will behave better when they scan me next 🙂

Does Baby Heart Beat Rate Determines Gender? Fetal Heart Rate for Gender Prediction

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Well Well..

Mum and Dad have recently been talking about this. They didn’t know I was listening and making my own notes (Technically I have fingers now)

There seems to be a global rumour amongst Moms-2-Be that Baby’s hear rate helps in predicting the Gender. My Doctor Says I am 160 bpm (beats per minute) at the moment. I will have to wait another 6-7 months to find out the results of this First Hand Test.

However, I can write for now, what I have been hearing from mum and dad.

Until the baby (fetal) is 4 months approximately, it is almost impossible to know the difference. Both male and female heart beats run about the same. It also depends on whether the baby is moving, while conducting the test. If it moves, the heart rate increases.

Sometimes the doctors are almost accurate in identifying but that is not because of the beats, but because of their experience in hearing the sound accurately. It is said that with a girl it would sound more like a fast beating heart, while with a boy it will sound like a horse’s gallop.

Several studies conducted to test this theory actually show that there is no such relationship between the prediction of the gender to that of the heart beat rate.

I am now starting to count my heartbeats 🙂
I hope I get to know before everyone else, whether I would be born a boy or a girl. It will be fun to fool the midwife by moving around when she is doing the next scan.